tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post8802496804120087253..comments2024-03-18T03:40:39.185-04:00Comments on The Curious Jew: Controlling One's AngerChanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17655144434904957767noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-26734129816592355602007-09-06T00:23:00.000-04:002007-09-06T00:23:00.000-04:00Hehe. I'm ALWAYS arrogant!While I understand the i...Hehe. I'm ALWAYS arrogant!<BR/><BR/>While I understand the idea of people wanting to let anger out, I'm not sure I like the idea of switching it from one person to the next. On the other hand, there's the idea of venting to people who can handle it, who aren't fazed by it, etc., and having someone there for you when you need to let stuff out can be healthy. But something about it still bothers me...Ezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494592434522239195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-91239604779509547632007-09-05T21:50:00.000-04:002007-09-05T21:50:00.000-04:00Ezzie, that is disgusting! you are so acting like ...Ezzie, that is disgusting! you are so acting like you are arrogrant! ;-P Joking aside ==> Seriously, i know people who can't control thier anger, and many more who have permission to yell at scapegoat. Even me, i have someone to be scapegoat because i know myself very well, if i don't yelled out and control myself, i will bottle up all my anger feeling inside of me that will leads me to explode to someone who doesn't deserve it all and don't know why i am acting like that. Some reasons i simply can't rid of it. Until a year ago, i always snapped at my father bec i know my father will forgive me right away but it is halacha wrong of course. So i rather to snapped to someone who is my dearest friend who know about this and really don't want me to yelled at my father and it is healthy for me to switch to different person, which is my dearest friend. So i am saying a lot of people and me just can't control it but should find alternative choices.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-60472867691160482742007-09-05T17:29:00.000-04:002007-09-05T17:29:00.000-04:00Ezzie, that doesn't become you. If I find somethin...<I>Ezzie, that doesn't become you. If I find something to admire, it doesn't do for you to tear it down, even a little. </I><BR/><BR/>Sniff. My point was that of examples to choose, it wasn't a great one; your one here in the comments was better. :)Ezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494592434522239195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-22052890500435941452007-09-05T14:49:00.000-04:002007-09-05T14:49:00.000-04:00Ezzie, that doesn't become you. If I find somethin...Ezzie, that doesn't become you. If I find something to admire, it doesn't do for you to tear it down, even a little. <BR/><BR/>While you and Scraps are both theoretically right, I think that proof of people's quality shows in their response to small annoyances as opposed to large and horrible occurences. Everyone helped after 9/11. But on an everyday basis? Pause for laughter. That's why I was (am) impressed.<BR/><BR/>:-)Chanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17655144434904957767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-82546384529719506682007-09-05T10:01:00.000-04:002007-09-05T10:01:00.000-04:00I think it takes a certain level of emotional matu...I think it takes a certain level of emotional maturity and intellectual honesty to be able to do this. However, I think that most well-balanced human beings, once they're past a certain age, should be capable of it. Whether or not they choose to exercise this capability is another story, of course.Scrapshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15911315552965685448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-53343431685114603942007-09-05T09:55:00.000-04:002007-09-05T09:55:00.000-04:00How many people do you know who could control thei...<I>How many people do you know who could control their anger that well?</I><BR/><BR/>Actually, this example isn't the greatest - most people I know are like this, thank God.Ezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494592434522239195noreply@blogger.com