tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post5097432465829214134..comments2024-03-18T03:40:39.185-04:00Comments on The Curious Jew: Chana's Guide To How To Treat A WomanChanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17655144434904957767noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-66620634468923444342009-07-25T23:25:48.343-04:002009-07-25T23:25:48.343-04:00Anonymous 7/22 4:39
It would be a bigger accompli...Anonymous 7/22 4:39<br /><br />It would be a bigger accomplishment if you kept your zipper closed.Der Alter from YUnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-81504775381076563652009-07-23T23:30:51.839-04:002009-07-23T23:30:51.839-04:00Now we need one of the guys here to do the reverse...Now we need one of the guys here to do the reverse version. I could really use this kind of guide!Bas~Melechhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01511197551248863790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-74403117514310155182009-07-23T14:09:27.846-04:002009-07-23T14:09:27.846-04:00Whatever you do, don't title it: "10 Smar...Whatever you do, don't title it: "10 Smart Ways to Treat (and Keep) Your Woman" That connotes 1)possession of the woman 2) the "kept woman" -- a term applied to a mistress.Ariella's bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09409352047101582583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-12388824210945279252009-07-22T22:39:41.173-04:002009-07-22T22:39:41.173-04:00Good post.
Alas, from what I've learned--ever...Good post.<br /><br />Alas, from what I've learned--every girl has different wants/desires in a guy. I learn something every day at the office (For those reading:I work as a lone guy surrounded by women...)<br /> <br />There's still no plausible explanation for the girls who seem to only be attracted to jerks or boys who treat them poorly. (Yes, I said "boys" rather than men on purpose). Any theories?<br /><br />As for point #9--I think you may underestimate the effects that testosterone have on the male mind. [Perhaps you're too innocent to realize this--which isn't necessarily a bad thing]<br /><br />Oh--and totally unrelated, but I know I still owe you an email with my latest story.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16804183164146888495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-38406034494642757932009-07-22T18:28:43.923-04:002009-07-22T18:28:43.923-04:00Anon before this one: If it helps I've always ...Anon before this one: If it helps I've always seen girls as potential friends first, then "am I actually interested in this person physically". Though a couple of years ago I had a friend, who, whenever I told him about a girl, would ask me if I felt comfortable thinking about that person in sexual terms, to which I usually answered "I hadn't thought about that!". But since then I actually found that consideration to be a lot more prevalent in my mind. ..I've been corrupted!הצעיר שלמה בן רפאל לבית שריקי ס"טhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835340110056405173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-27279434513501388012009-07-22T16:39:55.890-04:002009-07-22T16:39:55.890-04:00“But that doesn't mean that the first thing yo...“But that doesn't mean that the first thing you should think when you see a woman is whether. . . you can turn her into your conquest.”<br /><br />Ive had mixed results with this when dealing dating within the “shidduch world.” Most of these type girls tend to save themselves for marriage and are unwilling to have sex. However for the few of these shidduch girls who I have managed to sleep with, it felt like quite the accomplishment. Way better than meeting a random girl in a bar.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-54527269159583753192009-07-22T16:03:27.538-04:002009-07-22T16:03:27.538-04:009. It's Not All About Sex
"Coming from a...9. It's Not All About Sex<br /><br />"Coming from an all-guys school, you're probably sexually repressed. All right, that's normal."<br /><br />chana, you obviously haven't a clue about guys/males. ALL guys (whether from an all guys environment or not) see a women as a sex object and their first thought upon seeing a women is whether she would make a good sex mate/attractive e.t.c.. Men see women as black/white, either potential or not. They don't see them as "friends". <br /><br />secondly, all this nice stuff about women is fine; but if you only act "nice" and "sweet" to a girl, without injecting fun, humor, and teasing, she will treat u as a "nice guy" but not someone she would hang around. . .anon.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-57181864627284538132009-07-22T15:02:24.858-04:002009-07-22T15:02:24.858-04:00I like it too.I like it too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-76057160801198568742009-07-22T15:00:43.810-04:002009-07-22T15:00:43.810-04:00I like the guide-it's thorough.I like the guide-it's thorough.Aaronnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-3388643247015429662009-07-22T11:42:01.810-04:002009-07-22T11:42:01.810-04:00The only thing you really have to know is that wom...The only thing you really have to know is that women are people too.Jewish Atheisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04616617537150446818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-90653176514111996702009-07-22T09:49:51.181-04:002009-07-22T09:49:51.181-04:00A frum friend of mine who just started dating tol...A frum friend of mine who just started dating told me about this site. I'm impressed with both content and your ability to form and express your thoughts so well for being just 20. I believe this post is equally applicable to both genders. Well done!Adamnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-48523777875623935122009-07-22T09:30:08.830-04:002009-07-22T09:30:08.830-04:00Great post!
Well written as usual.Great post!<br />Well written as usual.Arinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-68047765218858062342009-07-22T08:39:26.797-04:002009-07-22T08:39:26.797-04:00I can't count the number of times I have heard...I can't count the number of times I have heard or given such advice. (Of course, much credit is due to the writer of this piece, with her customary eloquence.)<br /><br />The more it gets out, and the more people spread these messages of basic middot tovot, the more likely we are to better ourselves as a people.<br /><br />Very appropriate for Rosh Chodesh Av...Gavinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-12518355211706190542009-07-22T02:27:36.651-04:002009-07-22T02:27:36.651-04:00I wonder what inspired this!I wonder what inspired this!הצעיר שלמה בן רפאל לבית שריקי ס"טhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835340110056405173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-19907785228694968602009-07-21T23:22:28.564-04:002009-07-21T23:22:28.564-04:00i feel like this should be a main-feature for yaho...i feel like this should be a main-feature for yahoo: "10 Smart Ways to Treat (and Keep) Your Woman"dustfingernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-11254710535941490162009-07-21T22:48:45.348-04:002009-07-21T22:48:45.348-04:00i too echo the accolades you received on this post...i too echo the accolades you received on this post.<br /><br />well put, and nicely writtenharry-er than them allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07957506180776134351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-25378433295566793992009-07-21T22:46:33.187-04:002009-07-21T22:46:33.187-04:00Nothing like a novice telling us all "how it ...Nothing like a novice telling us all "how it is". Yes, very brave indeed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-60629482377706276532009-07-21T22:38:13.043-04:002009-07-21T22:38:13.043-04:00Chana,you are so brave, telling it all as it is. A...Chana,you are so brave, telling it all as it is. A few guys I went out with on shidduch were courteous and sensitive and some were clueless. I do believe that everyone can brush up on social skills with the right kind of guidance,reading material and etc.<br /> A good post with important message! Thank you.Stern studentnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-35741450193905018682009-07-21T22:36:13.448-04:002009-07-21T22:36:13.448-04:00This is also a good guide to women on how they sho...This is also a good guide to women on how they should treat a man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12970718.post-78276096437515027512009-07-21T21:41:24.505-04:002009-07-21T21:41:24.505-04:00This is very refreshing and useful.
Thanks very mu...This is very refreshing and useful.<br />Thanks very much.Urinoreply@blogger.com